Don’t worry, I have also been on this very journey.  In the past when I met people and they asked me what I did, I would think about how to describe what I did because I “knew” that they wouldn’t know what ThetaHealing® is.  I would say “I’m a Spiritual Healer and Teacher” and they would reply “What is that?” or simply “Huh!”.   Then I would say “well actually I am ThetaHealer®” then they would say “Huh! What is that and why didn’t you say that  before”  and then quickly become confused and lose interest.

In today’s society, the average person is bombarded with hundreds of thousands of  “advertising” messages a day and you only have a very short period of time to get someones attention.  To keep it, you need a compelling message, otherwise you lose them.  There is a saying in marketing, “If you confuse them you lose them!!”  And this is true when you introduce yourself and tell people what you do.

ThetaHealing® has been around for approximately 15 years now and to be honest  I would have expected that its name would have more of a presence than it does, but I am not so surprised due to the fact that people have a reluctance in using the name.  And this has left us where we are today, but I trust not for much longer as there are many more people in ThetaHealing® that understand Marketing and things are finally changing for the better.

I was at a Business School residential recently and we were invited up to the microphone to have our business names critiqued.  People from all different industries got up, told their story and were critiqued.  Then it was my turn, I stood their and proudly told them my business name  “Theta Devas: The New Wave in ThetaHealing®” and it was not pretty.  I was totally smashed!!  People we saying “What is ThetaHealing®”,  “I have never heard of it”, “Don’t put it in your business name”,  “Your business name sucks”.   I tell you it was a hard pill to swallow, but they were in essence right.  So many people have just never heard of it before.  Did I change my name, No.  Did I listen what they said, Absolutely, that is why I pay to be there.  And now do you think that the 200 people in that room know what ThetaHealing® is?

The story continues, because as I sat down  feeling extremely deflated, one of the women at my table said “You have to change your name, I don’t even know how to spell it.  Anyway what the hell is ThetaHealing®.  It makes no sense!”  As I was sitting there thinking of a way to reply that avoided the use of my physical body,  I had a moment of clarity (Hmm, I wonder where that came from?) and I calmly said “What do you do?” and she replied that she was an Internet Marketer.  With a fake perplexed look on my face I asked her if she Marketed the Internet to people.  Indignantly she said no, and said that everyone knows what Internet Marketing is.  I said to her that I disagreed because some people don’t even know what the internet is or have a computer, she just laughed as though I was stupid.  She continued on about how the name ThetaHealing® doesn’t tell people what it does.  Hmm,  another interesting point, but I calmly asked her what a “Plumber” does because nowhere in that word does it say what they do, or what about a Lawyer, or a Doctor.  She just looked at me as though I had the lowest IQ in the world,  and said that I was being too emotional and  she would not answer the question.

A very wise teacher once told me that “What you argue for  you get to keep.” Well due to that advice it is now rare for me to argue, so the above example is quite rare indeed.  I am happy to argue for and to keep the name ThetaHealing® because it is what I do.  If people don’t know what it is… then tell them.

We are at an interesting stage of the development of ThetaHealing® and it is starting to be more widely known.  Sometimes this is not always in a positive way but you know what we can all live without living down to people’s expectations… right?  We can all be shining Ambassadors for ThetaHealing® and all that we do.

Earlier this year at a residential for the same Business School , a woman asked me what I did and I simply replied “I am a ThetaHealing® Master” and you know what she said?  She said “Oh, I have done that course and I loved it!”  We are now great friends.  Most of the time we don’t really know the people we are meeting and their history so don’t judge them before you talk to them, don’t try to “soften” the blow,  don’t feel uneasy about what you do, there is no need to sugar coat what you do, just say proudly that you are a ThetaHealer®.

If you believe in what you do… others will as well!!

Thanks you so much for reading,

With Love, Gratitude and Appreciation,

Pauline Longdon

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

I was determined to prove them wrong and set out to undo all that the Army had done to me. I studied many different modalities and this is where ThetaHealing™ stood out. It allowed me to accelerate the change that would normally be a painful process and avoid going back into the “Shit-Pit”. I kept clearing and moving forward free from the drama.

I have totally turned my life around by using the simple techniques that I was taught in ThetaHealing™. They had such a profound affect on me that I became a ThetaHealing™ teacher in 2007 and in 2008, 3 years after my discharge, I became Australia’s first ThetaHealing™ Master, and in 2009 I received the Certificate of Science in ThetaHealing™. I will continue my ThetaHealing™ journey and achieve all that is offered. Thank you to Vianna Stibal for all she has done and continues to do.

This wonderful healing modality has worked very well for me and for that I am grateful. I enjoy being alive and am now empowering others to do the same.

Thanks you so much for reading,

With Love and Gratitude,

Pauline Longdon

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

How is this relevant to ThetaHealing™ or Complimentary Therapists I hear you ask.  Well it is of great importance.  Over the past few months (since my last blog post ),  I have been teaching ThetaHealing™ almost non stop, and I have met a huge number of people who have gone to Healers (of many different  modalities) for a particular treatment say a massage, and ended up being treated with another type of treatment altogether.  The Therapist usually says that it is the more suitable treatment for the needs of the client, but it is not what the client has consented or agreed to.

I guess that it is just my Nursing background, but the thought of this happening is amazing  to me.  Of course I totally get that you would suggest a treatment but to go ahead and actually do against the clients wishes is both disrespectful to your client, and it is technically assault and battery.

Here are a few examples:  one woman (a ThetaHealing™  Practitioner) I met just wanted a relaxing one  hour massage but ended up being lectured to by the practitioner  for over 45 minutes of the session about the benefits of a new healing modality that “totally replaced  ThetaHealing™”, and even when she refused the treatment the practitioner just “did” the healing anyway  and did a 15 minute massage. Another woman went to a Practitioner for Reiki and ended up having a Bowen treatment.  Regardless of the modality, I think that this is unacceptable.

So what if we were to put this situation into another context (You know I love metaphors). What if a patient rings the call bell and asks a nurse for a painkiller to relieve pain from recent stomach surgery, and the Nurse knows of a different way to relieve pain and so they suggests the new treatment but the patient refuses. The Nurse really wants to try it anyway so they walk up to the patient and slaps them across the face thus distracting the  patients attention from their pain. The procedure is successful and the patient no longer has stomach pain, but the nurse has committed assault and battery.  Well as extreme as you may think that this example is, it is exactly what the above mentioned Therapists are doing, they just don’t see it that way.

As a Nurse, even though I knew that a treatment would save a persons life, if the patient refused it, I couldn’t give it.  As another example, I was nursing an elderly woman who needed a blood transfusion to save her life, no big deal you think? Unfortunately it was,  because she was a Jehovah’s Witness. People know that you can not give a Jehovah’s Witness a blood transfusion even when it will save their life (There are a few exceptions to this rule but they do involve legal teams and have huge moral and ethical consequences). So what do you do? Do you just stand there and watch someone die? Yes you do, it is called free will and it is called respecting the rights of the patient.

So why is it different in the Complimentary and Alternative Therapy world? Well, is it really different or is it just that  Therapists “think” that they are different.? In ThetaHealing™  from the very first course, we are taught to respect  people’s free will.   If our Medical Professionals ever did what the practitioner’s are doing, there would be a public outcry and it would be in every News Service around the world. The Medical Professional would be disciplined, they may even lose their professional registration and in some cases they will end up with a criminal record.

The way I apply my Nursing ethics to ThetaHealing™ makes it  such a great fit for me.  ThetaHealing™ for me has the same respect for clients as I did for my patients when I was a Nurse.  I uphold the same degree of professionalism and confidentiality in my practice as a ThetaHealer®. And I only ever do what the client agrees to. No downloads are ever done against the clients wishes and I obtain their verbal consent to each procedure that is done. For me Spirituality is all about ‘Flow’ and never about ‘Force’, so why are people forcing their will and healings upon non consenting clients.

So now I ask you, what would happen if something went wrong whilst the Practitioner was doing the healing that  the client didn’t want or agree to?  Where would that leave the Practitioner legally? Have you technically assaulted your client and would they be able to sue you or press charges?  As a practitioner do you have indemnity insurance? I know that these are things we don’t want to think/talk about but they are a reality that we need to be aware of.

So to finish off  I leave you with this one thought. What makes us different to the  Medical  Professionals? Nothing!

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light and Learning.

Pauline Longdon

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

I think by now people who read my blog know where I stand on the issue, I love ThetaHealing™. The “Truth Seekers” as they call themselves, are people who once had some type of involvement in ThetaHealing™ in one way or another. One is Vianna’s (ex?) daughter in law, whose testimonial appears on the back of the ThetaHealing™ Book. Others are Teachers who have moved away from ThetaHealing™ because of many varied reasons but mostly because they did not teach Vianna’s information as she intended, others are people who think that they know better than all ThetaHealers® and then we just have the followers. Most of these people were more than happy to play inside the so-called lie and fraud whilst it suited them, but now that they are no longer in ThetaHealing™, they want to destroy it and everyone involved in it. One of the Teachers that taught me now has their own modality and has even confessed that he did not even teach Vianna’s material. So where is my refund for the thousands of dollars that I paid to learn a modality that I was never taught. One of the claims by the “Truth Seekers” is that is costs $20,000 to become a ThetaHealing™ Master. Well, a lot of that money goes to ThetaHealing™ teachers like the one I mentioned before that had no trouble in taking the money and I can tell you they were raking in the money and not even teaching it properly. So not all of the money goes to Vianna!

People say that is ok for them to do what they are doing because of freedom of speech etc, but it is where they post their comments that is the concerning point. They deface other peoples Facebook pages, You Tube pages and anywhere else they can put a negative comment. It is a great strategy even if it is a little parasitic. They sit there and entertain each other with their little quips. Where are their videos on You Tube?? And as for their comments, one of the posters even proudly makes the comment “you will never know who I am”. Then if you are happy to hide behind your anonymity, why should anyone take your comments seriously?

Just for fun, let’s attempt to put this into some sort of perspective. Just Imagine that there is a big company say Apple, and Steve Jobs has a son. Just say this son leaves his wife and now his wife is bagging out Steve Jobs and Apple, and saying that Apple products don’t work. I wonder how far that would go. What about a person in the Apple Corporation who wanted Steve Jobs to approve their own product but they were the only ones who could sell it, I wonder if Apple would do that? Or what about if the Technician modified some of the components in the iPod on the assembly line to make it “better” and said “Don’t tell Steve Jobs I am doing this”, I wonder how Apple would handle it?

What about another brand such as Kentucky Fried Chicken. The Colonels son leaves his wife and she goes out and tells everyone that it is not even chicken, and that there aren’t even really 11 herbs and spices, that is all just a great big fraud. What about the store owner who wants to add another secret ingredient but it can only be sold in their shop by them. And then finally you have the disgruntled shop owner who takes the few herbs and spices that they can identify, takes some from other fast food outlets, smashes them all together, and they go and start-up their own new Chicken shop called “The Chicken that really tastes like Chicken, that makes KFC redundant!!!”

Most of the claims that they make would never be tolerated in the corporate world. One of my favourite claims that they post everywhere is , you shouldn’t have to pay for a healing. Well people pay money when they go to church (it is called a collection plate), people pay people to do Reiki, Angel Readings, Pranic Healings, NLP, and Reference Point Therapy, so why not ThetaHealing™. Why do we have to be poor? Oh, that’s right they also claim that it doesn’t work. According to whom?? I have plenty of clients and students that this has worked for, as do many other ThetaHealers.

The “Truth Seekers” say that ThetaHealers® are stupid because they worship Vianna Stibal like some sort of Guru, but I had been doing ThetaHealing™ for 2 years before I even met Vianna Stibal. Before then I had teachers (that are no longer teaching ThetaHealing™) running around trying to be my guru. It is funny because some of the people who are criticising Vianna have done and continue to do what they accuse her of. Where are the fraud pages set up for them??

Even if Vianna Stibal was all that they say she is, why do they have to take it out on all ThetaHealers? There are many people who don’t like Dr Eric Pearl but they don’t go around rubbishing The Reconnection, or people who don’t like Doreen Virtue don’t bag out Angel Therapy Practitioners. Even if there was no Vianna Stibal, there would still be ThetaHealing™. Pranic Healing and Reiki have survived beyond their Masters death.

One thing that I am sure of is that even by me writing this post I will be targeted and my page, if I allow comments, will be hit with a myriad of comments. My You Tube Videos that I post so people can see how much fun we have, have been attacked so now I have moderate the comments. They are always by the same people, and mostly people who hide behind their made up names. If they really had any truth to tell us they would be proud to put their names to it, just as I am proud to put my name to my blog.

So in answer to my initial question, who do you believe? Well it is entirely up to you. As with anything in life there will be people who love it, people who hate it and those who sit in the middle, ThetaHealing™ is no different. I am a fairly well educated person and grown up enough to make decisions for myself. The “Truth Seekers” would probably consider me an idiot, but you know what, when nothing else worked on my depression and acne rosacea, ThetaHealing™ was the only thing that worked. So why would I hate something that gave me back everything that I lost and much, much more. As for the truth, well being an Indigo Child I know all about it. I am not a “Truth Seeker”, I am a Truth Knower!!

I love Apple, I love KFC and I love ThetaHealing™.

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light and Learning.

Pauline Longdon

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

Please Note: As this Blog is my opinion, I will be moderating comments (because that is my style) to ensure that the comments are balanced. Just as you have the choice to read or not, I have the choice to publish or not

Now I am sure that I have mentioned in previous posts that I started out my life as an Indigo Child.  So as a walking, talking lie detector, many times I knew that people were not speaking from truth or integrity. The thing is that although people think that they are experienced, they really are not. My Indigo insight has allowed me to see through the illusion. It has often stepped in and shown me the truth which allowed me to continue on with my journey.

 To explain this concept and illusion of experience, imagine that,  Nurse A has been on a ward for the last 20 years.  Now when a new graduate Nurse (Nurse B) goes to that ward they are promptly told that Nurse A has 20 years experience and to learn from them. So then Nurse B plays the game and what happens is that they often quickly out grow the more “experienced” Nurse.  But how can that happen, if Nurse A has 20 years experience? Well, it is easy when you look behind the illusion that is set up before us. Nurse A may have only really had one year of experience but has repeated it 19 times, which will equal the illusion of “20 years of experience”. Nurse A is totally convinced that they have had the 20 years of experience, because they have been on the same ward doing the same thing shift after shift. In truth this is not experience, this is stagnation.

 I once had an ICU Nurse with over 10 years experience stand in front of me and tell me that as an Army Nurse with all the moving around I had done, I would never be as experienced as she was at ICU nursing. She had never been in the Army and had no point of reference in which to base her claim, but I let her continue with her comments interested to see where it would go. Later that shift one of the ventilators had a fault which would require it to be sent off to be serviced, that would have severely affect the capacity of the ICU. I walked up to the machine, had a quick look, tracked back the fault and with a few adjustments and testing had the machine working in no time at all. She was amazed and wanted to know how I knew what the fault was on the machine. I told her as an Army Nurse I really needed to have a good knowledge of the machinery as well as caring for patients, because on deployments there are no service people and the machines need to work. Sure she had been in the ICU for 10 years but when did her growth stop. She had called me a “Jack of all trades, Master of none”, but as a “junior” ICU Nurse of 2 years, I could already do most that she could do, and a whole lot more that she couldn’t. In nursing there is a culture of the “older Nurses eating their young” which is damaging to the whole industry. This is not isolated to Nursing and happens in many industries, even our Complimentary Healing Industry.

People set themselves up as the “senior” person and judge people as being  junior to them with no appreciation of what experience of what they may have done before. One of the things that has made me different to most other people who I have known in my life, is that I prefer to observe rather than judge. I take into account all that a person has done. Other people only see the relevance of things as they are relevant to themselves. 

When I was discharged from the Army I was involved in a business that was so dynamic, but then they had some General Managers join the company. These people had a huge amount of “experience” in other business sectors and they proceeded to tell me that I had no experience in management and that they would need to teach me how to manage a team of 15 – 20 people. They also suggested that I go and study an MBA. Now they knew that I had been a Major in the Army and that I had been an Officer Commanding of a Medical Company. I can tell you that it is common to have about 50 – 100 people of various ranks in a Medical Company from Doctor, Nurses and Medics. So they did not have anywhere the level of experience that I had, but I had to sit there as a “junior” manager and listen to their “experience”. Sadly that business is no longer in existence.

When I started my journey on the Spiritual path I thought that these things would not happen anymore. I could not be more wrong. (Just to let you know, of course I have noticed the pattern in my life and have since changed the bottom beliefs and the way it was serving me, and this scenario no longer happens to the same degree.) People very quickly started to make me aware of the hierarchy. When I became the first Australian to be awarded a ThetaHealing™ Master, many of the “senior” teachers ignored me and what was even worse was when one of them told me that it was no big deal and I didn’t have enough experience. That was a turning point in my life. At that stage I may not have been teaching ThetaHealing™ for long but I have many years of experience of Instructing and Training people.( Just for the record, I have now taught over 40 ThetaHealing™ Courses at all levels in the last 2 years, which I guess makes me pretty experienced).  As for healing, I have always been a healer, I haven’t always called it ThetaHealing™.

You may be wondering if this all means that I don’t respect people who have more experience than I do, and the answer to that is simple, as long as they do have the experience.

We live in a world where babies are being born with the ability to do Reiki and other healing modalities. People are learning, or is it really just remembering, things more quickly. People can go to THInK (ThetaHealing™ Institute of Knowledge) and do a whole semester of courses and become a ThetaHealing™ Master. We need to get away from this culture of eating our young (just to clarify, young does not have to be age based) and start to nurture each other. 

I run Theta Devas (My Business) and teach ThetaHealing™ in a space that is full of love, respect and nurturing. My practitioner sessions are done in the same space. None of my students are a threat to me, I get excited each time one of them becomes a teacher, and I will never treat them the way I was treated by the other ThetaHealing™ Teachers. I have learnt a lot from those “senior” more “experienced” Nurses, Managers and Teachers. Instead of complaining about change or fearing it, let’s truly be the change that you want to see in the world.

So next time you are searching for something in your life be it a  Teacher or Practitioner and you are told that someone has 10 years experience, find out more, and let’s stop ignoring the “new comers”  because people tell you they lack experience. They probably have the most current and up to date practices and have the most to teach you, possibly about yourself.

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light and Learning.

Pauline Longdon

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

Please Note: only comments that are relevant to this article will be published (because that is my style)

When I was studying Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) back in 2005/06, I first encountered the “let’s heal everything” phenomenon. I would be out a dinner with my NLP friends, just sitting around and then it would happen, just like magic. Someone would be talking and then around the table would be the chorus of “Limiting belief…” etc. The analysis would begin and the processes would be flung around whether the person wanted it or not. This happened time and time again. People love to solve and heal other people’s problems. 

When the movie “The Secret” came out things became really interesting. This movie is all about the Law of Attraction. Now whenever anyone in our circle of friends said anything negative not only did they get the NLP processes, but now they were hit with the Law of Attraction arsenal as well. 

I started to reduce the amount of time that I spent with these friends because I never felt that I could truly be myself. I was always afraid of what would come out of my mouth and what the end result would be. Being depressed at the time, I was constantly swimming in negativity, so I would be their prime target. There was a slight problem with my plan of escaping these people. My partner was also doing all of the same courses as me and was in the same circle of friends. So although I was reducing the amount of time I spent with my friends, my partner and I would run the exact same stuff at home. Great!! 

This was when I was still working through depression and as much as I love my partner, I did not enjoy the constant analysis of my behaviours and words. I was not able to say anything negative otherwise I would get a quick reminder about the Law of Attraction and how I was attracting what I didn’t want. I must be honest though, I did it too but I felt as though I was unable to talk to my partner anymore. We would constantly argue and I felt like I was slipping backwards into a darker depression again. 

One day in a moment of sheer frustration and desperation, I called an urgent meeting. I needed to resolve this issue or our relationship was doomed. There was a lot of heated discussion, a few tears but in the end we came to an agreement. The outcome of this meeting was a defining moment in our relationship and has helped many other practitioners (especially practitioners that are in relationships with another practitioners) to save their relationships. The concept is simple: “Who do you need to be right now? A friend, a partner or a practitioner?” 

Sometimes a person just needs to “drain the swamp”. This is when you just say everything that is on your mind. The good, the bad and the ugly. This can be quite a cathartic experience, but when my partner was in practitioner mode this was impossible to do. I didn’t need problem solving, or judgment in fact there was no treatment required, just the need for someone to be a compassionate sounding board. After we were able to clearly define our roles, things were resolved easily and we were back in the flow. 

During my ThetaHealing™ journey, I have had a few teachers that have said publicly that they work on their partner and their partner works on them all the time, but in candid conversations they told me that they never allow their partner to work on them and that they never work on their partner because it complicates things. They are surprised when they see me and my partner pair up for belief work. Many people feel the need to warn us that we will break up if we work on each other too much. But isn’t that what we have these amazing tools for? What an amazing gift to be able to use on those that you love, with discernment of course. 

Vianna Stibal totally respects her husbands’ free will by not imposing a healing or belief work on him. How many people do you know that try to force belief work on the people around them? Just because you see something to change in a person, it doesn’t mean that they need to change it. By clearly defining who it is that you need your partner to be or who your partner wants you to be, your life will become less complicated and your relationship will flow more freely. 

Does this only work for romantic relationships? Absolutely not!! The same strategy works on friends, family and yourself as well. So next time you see someone who needs a healing or help, just ask yourself who do you need to be, a friend or practitioner?

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light and Learning.

Pauline Longdon

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

These days I don’t really go into my depression story before my discharge from the Army, only to say that it was a really dark time in my life. The more I tried to stay where I was, the harder it became. There were the days, weeks, months curled up in the fetal position in a puddle of tears and snot. The uncontrollable fear and anxiety that consumed my life. The stupid flash backs to situations when I was on deployments, to rehash what I had seen, as though it wasn’t enough to go through it once, I was on a never-ending loop. The extreme weight loss, and then ultimately the extreme weight gain. The feelings of absolute uselessness,  hopelessness and helplessness. My world had been ripped apart.

I was fortunate in some small way though, when I was discharged from the Australian Army I was not on any medications. Earlier in the year (2005) my body had a horrible reaction and I refused to go anywhere near them after that. About a month before my discharge I actually attended my first ever ThetaHealing™ Practitioner’s course. What was the attraction? Well, somewhere in the website it mentioned being able to balance your brain chemistry and DNA activation. The balancing of the brain chemistry was the thing that I wanted most out of the course, and the course delivered. As I continued on my journey I began to discover some other concepts that I will share with you now.

Balancing of the Brain chemistry: is mentioned in the book “ThetaHealing™” by Vianna Stibal, page 227. I did this every day religiously for about a month. I started to notice that my moods balanced, I was actually starting to “feel” things again and I even started to laugh again. I actually started to forget to do this everyday and only did it whan I felt my mood slip.

Feeling Work: it was such a relief to learn this skill. I was able to start downloading feelings that I had either forgotten or never really had. These downloads gave me a new point of reference, which became a very solid foundation on which to rebuild myself. Still to this day I am still downloading new feelings. Specific to depression, I really wanted to know how to experience happiness, joy, excitement, hope, love, usefulness, empowered, worthwhile etc.

Belief Work: At the time I was also learning Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), so I was aware of the type of questioning that is found in digging, but I found that ThetaHealing™ has a very fast and elegant way of dealing with things when you get to the bottom. Unfortunately I did not learn this skill on my first ThetaHealing™ Practitioner’s course (for whatever reason), however when I did learn it I loved it.  Out of all of the tools in my ThetaHealing™ repertoire, this is the one that I have found to be the most powerful. As long as it is done correctly. There are many people who dislike digging and will tell you that it is dangerous or it doesn’t get to the bottom belief, but all I will say is that just like any tool, it’s effectiveness is dependent on the operator.

Creator’s Definition: Never, never, never accept the download of Creator’s definition of depression, or anything else that is negative. This one download put my progress back almost a year. I accepted this download by a person who assured me that they knew what they were doing and that to have Creator’s definition of depression would be better to have than my own, because then I wouldn’t think that I was depressed anymore. Many people will just sit there and shake their heads and say that it was really stupid to accept that download, well they have that knowledge now because of people like me sharing our experiences. But here is another thing, when you are just starting out, and someone who claims to be one of the best ThetaHealers™ in the world tells you something, who are you going to trust and believe. Anyway, I ended up with Creator’s definition of depression for at least 6 months or more.

Heavy Metals: Heavy Metals can affect the brain and cause depression. Vianna talks about this in her “ThetaHealing™” and ”Disease and Disorder” Books.

How does depression serve you, and what has it taught you?: This may be quite a confronting question, but it needs to be answered. Our mind is incredibly powerful and will create situations to serve us. In my case I truly believe that depression was a way for me to slow down. I had been deployed twice in one year, which resulted in me being away from home just short of a year. I had no sooner returned home than I was being “threatened” with another deployment. Most people will say “Well that is what you signed up for!”, well actually it wasn’t. My treatment on my deployments and through my depression (until I was discharged) was substandard and insulting. Anyway, back to how it served me. Without depression I would have continued putting up with whatever the Army threw at me, but instead it made me stop. I was incapable of even the most basic tasks, everything was totally beyond me. So depression made me take time out for me, and it taught me how to put myself first, and how to respect and honour myself.

So there you have some of my insights on the treatment of depression. Just a few things to note, not all ThetaHealing™ teachers and practitioners are the same, make sure you get the best one for you. The cheapest person is just that, the cheapest person, don’t allow price to be your only guide. Do a bit of research on them before you commit to a session/course. (I started with a course because I wanted to be able to work on myself.) I have had a lot of very interesting experiences along the way and I would rather have others learn from my experience than their own. My experiences have however helped me to become a very focused and determined ThetaHealing™ Master, keen to make other peoples path as smooth as it can be.

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light, Laughter and Learning,

Pauline

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

What is the best way to get it right? Well, start by knowing what qualities you want this person to have. The following tips may seem a bit harsh but as it is your life and if we do in fact create our reality, create one you like. Soul mates are an important part of our lives. So what is important to you?

Things that you may want to consider are:

Gender and sexuality: Simple but important. I know of and have heard so many stories about people manifesting their soul mate and they don’t quite get the words right. e.g. they have asked for a person who will take care of them, cook and clean for them and be in touch with their feminine side, so they attracted a female. Not so bad if that is what you are expecting, but if you’re a female that has never been attracted to women before, it may bring up a few issues. Another story was a female who wanted a man who adored her and would go shopping with her for hours and took care of his appearance. Well, guess what, she manifested a gay man who fit all of her criteria perfectly but would not satisfy all of her desires.

Species: Another thing that seems to be simple but when people formulate their list of criteria for their soul mate, they could be talking about a golden retriever or a cat. How many people do you know that are very connected to their pets. I know of a woman who for years was manifesting to meet her perfect soul mate and every year she attracted a new animal into her life. Now she includes ”human” in her list, and is doing much better.

Physical Features: Be clear on what you want your partner to look like. Why would you want to manifest a soul mate that you are unable to be physically attracted to. How many times do you hear, “Oh, he was so perfect except he was way too short”, or “She was so beautiful but her nose was huge.”  If you plan to be with this person for a long time, ensure they are someone you can stand to look at day after day.

A Husband or a Wife: This one makes me laugh. Many people will include this on their list but they don’t say whose husband or wife they want. I have had so many people contact me and say “my manifestation seems to be working but I am only attracting married men”, when I get them to check their list, they alway have a husband on it but with no discernment on whose husband. We then change it to the person being emotionally available to be their husband. Things shift quickly after that.

Children: Do you want to have children with your soul mate. A friend of mine said that she wanted to have 3 children with her soul mate and when he came along, he already has 3 children, so now they are hers. So be specific as to where the children are going to come from.

Perfect vs. Compatible: Perfect may be too like you and may not grow with you, where as compatible is just different enough to keep things interesting.

These may seem to be simple tips, but when they are overlooked they can lead to very interesting situations materializing in your life.

Another way to manifest your most compatible soul mate is to see if you have any blocks e.g. Is it easier to look for them, than it is to work on building a relationship with them? Will you know what to do with them when you get them?? Is your list accidentally on purpose too impractical to get what you want? Do you even love yourself, if you don’t, how can anyone else? Are you in love with yourself? Would you go out with yourself?? If the answer is “NO” then you need to work on why that is. Are you afraid of deep intimacy? Does love equal pain, hurt, rejection? Do you know how to share all that you have? And of course always ask how these blocks or this behaviour serves you. These blocks will have a huge effect on your ability to attract that special person that you desire. Clear them and you will give yourself a much better chance.

So once you have your list and have cleared your blocks, ThetaHealing™ is an awesome way to manifest the soul mate that you desire.

 So when you are manifesting your most compatible soul mate, just remember that you just need to be clear on who it is you are attracting.

And of course, always be aware that you are manifesting a real person, they are already out there with their own life going on before you meet. There may be some work to do but  it will all be well worth it as you create the life you truly deserve.

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light, Laughter and Learning,

Pauline

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

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Ok, so originally this post was going to be a blank page. You know like those books, “1000 Things that Men Know About Women”  and vice versa and the book of all the US athletes at the Moscow Olympics etc. But I thought that would be too cheeky.

Needless to say however in my mind there are very few things that ThetaHealing™ is unable to help you with. Having said that, it is not a one size fits all approach to healing. The one thing that will govern whether it does work for you or not is your BS (belief systems). And as we all know,  BS is a huge contributor to our level of success or failure in life.

There have been a few people in the last few years that have claimed that ThetaHealing™ didn’t work, that it is dangerous or that it has been completely replaced. This a great example of belief systems (BS). When you are out to prove something wrong you will be able to find the results to prove yourself right. And because you have said that it doesn’t work, it won’t. Fortunately for us though, we can live free of adopting their reality as ours.

In my ThetaHealing™ career (it is not a hobby or a pass time, it is my business) I have had a few clients and students who have too much invested in their current situation to even try to change their life. They come to the course or a healing session and want massive changes in their life, but are really there to prove why nothing ever works for them. For those people ThetaHealing™ will not work because they will not allow it to. To be fair though, they have usually tried many other healing modalities that also hadn’t worked. One of the main principles in ThetaHealing™ is to respect people’s Free Will/ Free Agency. We can only do as much as people will allow us to do.

I have had many people say to me that if Vianna was such a great healer, why can’t she just heal everyone instantly whether they want her to or not. I usually give them the same explanation I am going to give you. Vianna respects people’s Free will/ Free agency, sure she does amazing belief and digging work, in fact she is artistic in the way she works, and she can only change the beliefs that the person wants changed. Many people say that they can heal people without their permission, but Vianna doesn’t. Vianna is very aware of who is the healer as are most people in ThetaHealing™, and the answer is Creator.

People will only heal as much as they will allow themselves to. I had a friend who was trying different healing modalities to heal a serious back injury. They were having no success but when we dug into the belief system it turned out that they would not heal completely until their compensation claim was settled. As soon as the compensation claim was paid out, they healed. Our mind is very powerful and very clever.

I also did a healing on a man who had prostate problems, and the healing was very successful. The same man had problems with  a huge gall stone, yet when I wanted to work on the gall stone, he didn’t think that it would work, so it didn’t. He then went on to have his gallbladder removed. This is a great example of the ThetaHealing™ Practitioner only being able to work on what the client wants worked on. I know that Creator would have sorted out that gall stone very easily.

So there you have it. ThetaHealing™ can work on as many things as you believe it will. What limitations do you have??

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light, Laughter and Learning,

Pauline

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com

People really start to doubt the existence of God because they think that it is a very one-sided conversation. But what if God, the Creator, Universe etc spoke through the things around us. Just to clarify, I am not talking about a talking toaster or if suddenly a person on TV starts talking directly to you. It can be much more subtle than that.

Every second we are bombarded with tens of millions of pieces of information but can only handle a minute fraction of all that. We have what is called a Reticular Activating System (RAS), and this is what prevents us from getting overwhelmed and overloaded. Our belief system (BS) helps to program the RAS, so if we are not noticing things maybe we need to tweak our beliefs so that we can. Remember in my last post I talked about how we create in our lives what we say about ourself, well this is a great example. What about if I were to say that God never listens or speaks to me? What would happen there, even if there was a huge booming “God” voice, my RAS would not pick it up. So on the other hand if my belief is that God always listens to me and speaks to me, it will not require a huge “God” voice to get my attention, the message can be subtle and I will receive it.

One of my strengths in life is to notice the little things (The distinction is in the noticing, not concerning, concentrating, obsessing etc, this allows me to notice and then move on.) This strength lies in a belief, and therefore it will influence my RAS. I will be out and about experiencing my day and anytime I have a question or want to know something, I just need to allow the answer to come in the way that it does.

A recent example is when I went to see the movie, Avatar. This is a really awesome movie, and it is filled with many spiriutual messages. One message that was particularly poignant was when the main character Jake was connecting to the tree of souls (Mother Goddess Ehwa) to ask for help, Neytiri said to him that the Goddess doesn’t work that way and that she only maintains the balance of life. Jake says that it couldn’t hurt to ask for help. This scene was a message to me to live without placing restrictions on the ability of The Creator and those around me. How many times have you restricted the potential of those around you or even yourself? I know I used to.

When I was on my first Advanced ThetaHealing™ Course my Teacher, who is an amazing woman, would often talk about the conversations that she was having with God/ The Creator and I sat in awe just wishing that one day I could have the same strong connection as she had. Well, I was teaching the very same course only last year when one of my students said to me that they wished that they had as strong a connection as I had.  This comment made me sit up and appreciate how far I had come (yet another important message). How many people would like to be as connected as Vianna is, yet they are unaware of how connected they really are. Maybe Vianna is more open to receiving the messages than others, and if that is the case then it is only a matter of changing your beliefs to be more connected.

With my own connection, I also get messages through music. I will be thinking of an idea and a song will come on with a line of lyrics that provide me with an accurate insight. Now I know people could say that I am just making the song fit into the situation, and you know what they are right… according to them (BS and RAS). According to me, my reality is the one I need to concern myself with. I even had a person once tell me that I wasn’t getting to the 7th plane because I get messages in the form of lyrics. She said that I was working on the 6th Plane where music and tones are used. Lucky for me I am not easily influenced and her comments had no effect, because I know 100% where my messages come from. And you know what, she was only talking through her RAS!

So no matter what form or what media your messages come to you in, as long as you are looking for and open to receiving it, you will. As a novice ThetaHealing™ Practitoner, I never thought that I would be as connected as I am today. I am truly living the ThetaHealing™ Lifestyle, I am constantly connected to the 7th Plane energy and life is amazing. Everyday I notice the little things and give thanks to the messages that I am receiving, however they chose to come. And I find that the messages are a lot clearer when I take my head out of my RAS.

Thanks for reading,

Love, Light, Laughter and Learning,

Pauline

ThetaHealing™ Master and ThetaHealing™ Certificate of Science

www.ThetaDevas.com